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Chad_Bharatiya_Anon

IN

WPQi10

03/02/26 (Tue) 23:20| Last Reply: 10 days 8 hours ago

No.1912

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> Honestly, I’m stuck and I don’t know what to do anymore

< Whenever I try to share my thoughts with my parents or my sister, it just turns into frustration.

< They say I’m annoying, overthinking, or giving too much gyaan

For the last two years, I’ve been in dummy school (11th nd 12th)

Before that, I switched schools in 10th and barely stayed there for a year

I basically don’t have real friends anymore

The few people I know aren’t responsive because too much time has passed

There’s no one I can actually talk to.

I don’t use Insta

I used Reddit&Discord for a while, but quit due to the racism

> Same reason I eventually ended up on bharatchan.

rn, every conversation with parents ends the same way ::

> “Just focus on studying for a few more months and then we can talk”

> “Don’t think about anything else other than JEE/Boards for the next 4montsh”

> “Stop having any other thoughts and just focus on Boards/JEE”

My sister is in college, and even when I do try to talk to her, she either ignores me or downplays my problems and achievements

So I’ve mostly stopped interacting with her cuz it feels pointless as of now

< Here’s the confusing part I’m not retarded afaik cuz my IQ is around 132

But rn i barely have any social skills imo

And academically, I am struggling with the traditional system, so Boards and JEE

What’s ironic is that whenever I tried things I actually find interesting, I do well

I’ve gotten fully funded fellowships abroad, internships in MNCs, etc etc

But none of this counts in Indian society. What counts is marks

And in marks, I’m just..... avg.

Mostly 80to90% throughout school.

10th went okayish in a sense (90%+), but otherwise nothing extraordinary

My JEE attempt was on 23rd Jan. I’m not expecting a good percentile

For now, my plan is to focus on 12th boards and JEEM-S2

I am studying seriously imo (10to12hrs/day)

After studying, I get thoughts philosophical, religious, tech related, science, business ideas. Too many thoughts.......

Parents believe I should be able to control my thoughts and think only about JEE and boards. thats smth i cant do afaik

So.....

> How to fix my mindset and perform decently in boards and JEE (cuz very few days are left)

> How to function better in the current system

> How to become normal enough again to interact with family and people without them getting irritated by me

Anonymous

SGTOW

/Eacfr

03/02/26 (Tue) 23:50

No.1913

mera bhi almost same haal hai.

i am not even studying for whole time like you may be, i surf bhach or reddit for 10-15min after doing 1-2 questions, my attention span has fked up, this is my thinking, but i can read long paras written by you bhachites.

problem is not in you , problem is the perspective.

you can ascend only when you have a why.

not a fake why about i will make enough money to fly out from this shithole or stuff like that.

STRONG delusional thinking is the common trait behind all major successful people.

you have to be delusional, like those manifesting things , which ultimately led to obsession.

what you may be doing for 10-12 is performing your duty , because you are frustated and ragebaited by family members.

i share only those parts which i know they are capable of the feedback.

i told my sister about good marks in a mock , so she said mocked my still worse rank and told it is not a great achievement , and ik she did this to humble me, to not to overjoy.

i was not surprised because ik family members give boomer advices.

see advices on specific-topics on subs like jeeneetards too.

>kek, i too have a 131 iq

but jee MAINS is not about iq, it is about speed testing.

<analyse the question

<know the formula

<speed solve it.

you may also have seen how all papers were calculative and lengthy apart from very conceptual.

Anonymous

SGTOW

/Eacfr

03/02/26 (Tue) 23:57

No.1914

no few days can fix your mindset.

it is a permanent thing, not a temp one like to prepare last min for next day tests.

if your parents are not involved in your studies unlike my mother which she is helping me in my boards examination , don't talk about it.

rather vent it up and watch some shows while eating with family . spend time with them in breaks.

i don't know if you have even give one JA mock tests.

But if you consider your concepts to be strong,

try attempting some questions and change your path from jee mains to advance

Chad_Bharatiya_Anon

IN

WPQi10

04/02/26 (Wed) 00:19

No.1915

>>1913

> tbh, I’m stuck studying ~12 hours a day rn cuz my boards prep is kinda f'ed up

I don’t know about all that “ascending” stuff, but I do have a very clear why imo

I know exactly what I want to do once I get to college (I plan to start my own business)

I can grind for months without motivation as long as I’m genuinely interested in what I’m doing, Unfortunately JEE/PCM just don’t fall into that category for me.

My parents and sister think I’m delusional about my future business plans(Prett sure i'm not cuz it just requires a bit of work)

< ragebaited by family members

100 f'king %, the main reason I even sit at my study table for 12 hours is so I’m not seen doing anything else

I come from an upper-middle-class family, so the default mindset is still very traditional : education → job → retirement nd dea1h

< Jeeneetards

Yeah, the sub is fine at times, but I personally find it repulsive cuz most posts are either low effort memes, IIT/NIT worship/hatred or Su1cide posts

and tbh I pretty much messed up JEE anyway.

Atp idc cuz I know this isn’t the end

Still, I’m anxious about tmmrw, and especially about 12th February

but nvm will try my best for 2nd attempt

WBU though ??

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>>1914

Nah , the problem isnt JEE

I'm not even intrested in that shii

I never wanted to do this

US

pl/y0j

04/02/26 (Wed) 00:27

No.1916

>>1912(OP)

>>1913

listen to your family nigha, they are right. You get a lot of time in (mostly only Indian) colleges to do a lot of extra shit like whatever you guys are saying. Abhi philosophy padhke kuch nhi kar payega so just mindlessly grind jee

t. 143 IQ

GJ

grvmEx

04/02/26 (Wed) 01:04

No.1919

>>1912(OP)

your parents won't tell you but they are retarded.

They will keep doing this to you until you start earning. That s when they will be accept your "stranger" thots.

Even then they would be too retarded to get them.

Focus on earning cash money(by stoodying/majdooring) be it 5 years or 10 years down the line or straight away (majdoori ) depending upon your apetite and take the verbal rape and endure it all all the time.

GJ

grvmEx

04/02/26 (Wed) 01:06

No.1920

>>1916

this. First you need cash then you need food and then you need to use your lingam. everything else is just fake and gay until you have figured out all those. Hobbies are a psyop by the baniya elites to slow down gwareeb middle class kids to get a jaab and start earning cash mony

Chad_Bharatiya_Anon

IN

WPQi10

04/02/26 (Wed) 01:16

No.1921

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>>1916

Okay yeah, I get what you’re saying tbh

I don’t really read anything apart from academic stuff rn, so I’m not sure where the philosophy book reading angle came from but nvm ....

>>1919

ig yeah ,that’s the most practical approach ig

I’m fairly confident I can start earning a solid amount well before I turn 20 (my business plans are pretty strong)

afaik it makes sense for me to listen to my parents and play along for now ...

Chad_Bharatiya_Anon

IN

WPQi10

04/02/26 (Wed) 15:23

No.1922

You guys were right anons

I am retarded af

just got to know my marks for JEE M S1 and i scored around 20 marks

attempted like 31 q's but idk how but almost all of them are wrong

F me ig

Nvm bye chat

would meet you guys in april .....

Chad_Bharatiya_Anon

IN

WPQi10

04/02/26 (Wed) 16:15

No.1923

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hmmm

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